Yes, a bridesmaid's job is to stand by you on your big day... and do as you wish (within reason) but these few tips can help make the tension between bride and bridesmaid a little less intense. Choose a dress they can wear again... many bridesmaids wont mind spending $200+ on the dress if that's the case. Many brides are also following a new trend... to allow their bridesmaids to choose the style after they have chosen the color. A popular color is black - and all girls need a black dress!
