As Maid (or Matron) of Honor, one of your most important tasks will be giving one of the toasts to the happy couple. Usually you will be given a set time limit on how long it can be, so before you start any planning, make sure to check with the bride and groom as to how long you will have.
As you begin to start writing your speech, make sure that you focus on the bride, and include several emotions (make them laugh, make them cry) and funny stories and memories that you have of your time together. Be spontaneous if you choose, but make sure that if you may be even slightly uncomfortable talking in front of people, you bring a hard copy of your notes, and rehearse beforehand. It is totally fine if you read your speech! (don’t let anyone tell you otherwise).
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
• What did the bride tell you about the groom when they first met/first started dating.
• A funny story from growing up together
• How you met the bride, and how long you’ve known her
• An “appropriate” embarrassing story
• A funny habit of the bride the groom will have to “deal” with
• Words of advice to the bride and groom
• Wishes for the newlyweds
Keep your speech short, no longer than 2 minutes and make sure to finish by hugging the bride and groom. Stay relaxed and make sure you have fun!
